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We are excited to announce, Vividbound attended dialectal behavioral therapy (DBT) in School Skills Training for Emotional Problem Solving for Adolescents (STEPS-A) Train-the Trainer Program presented by Melanie McCabe, PhD, LP, HSP. This was a wonderful well thought program and is highly recommended by us.
***What DBT Skill Services Entail***
Most importantly, Vividbound has successfully completed the training and received the certificate to start the process of hosting training sessions to counsel parents, teachers, child care providers, adolescent sport coaches, youth leaders, guardians, caregivers, community leaders, etc. on topics that entail:
- a variety of skills that can help children understand and manage their emotions using basic principles,
-helping children ask for what they want,
-saying no,
-naming their emotions,
-mindfulness,
-distress tolerance,
-interpersonal effectiveness, and
-emotional regulation.
Many of Vividbound clients have children. Unfortunately, when our team was assisting with the clients direct needs that involve a crisis related to safety, the safety needs remained on the forefront while helping the adult client/parent transition from their crisis situation. Sadly, this left many children without the emotional support that they need. Many children and teens are having a tough time managing their emotions and the resources to help them are limited. Vividbound vowed to make a difference by finding different ways to help children who have experienced trauma have a safe space to learn new skills with managing their emotions.
**Did You Know**
Did you know that the recommended ratio of school psychologists to students is 1:500 and North Carolina has a ratio of 1:1,979. Also, since 2020 there has been an increase of 46% more patients seeking psychology care and 60% of psychologists are not accepting new clients. Moreover, many of the children and/or teens who are in need of mental health services have witnessed domestic violence. 8.8 million children in the United States witness domestic violence in the home each year. Additionally, slightly more than half of female victims/survivors of intimate violence live in households with children under the age of 12. Children are often physically injured as a direct result of domestic violence. It estimated that 50% of men who frequently abused their wives also abused their children. To continue, children who witnessed domestic violence are at increased risk of psychological and emotional problems, cognitive functioning problems, and long-term development problems. For all the above reasons, Vividbound had to move into action and attend DBT Skills Training for Emotional Problem Solving for Adolescents (DBT STEPS-A).
**Vividbound's DBT Skills Training Services**
Vividbound's DBT services is a program that is composed of group sessions, phone coaching, skill training, and/or a consultation team of counselors along with therapists. DBT is known to help one develop concrete skills that one can use to cope when life feels overwhelming. The word dialectical in DBT comes from the term dialectics. This means that everything is composed of opposites, and those opposites can co-exist. Additionally, DBT approach is based on the belief that change and relief come from accepting opposing emotions, thoughts, and behaviors. Vividbound's DBT counseling program also includes demonstrations on rather than advising the child or teen about the area that was handled inappropriately, providing a variety of ways to demonstrate how the child or teen can approach the situation more appropriately which leads to positive outcomes.
Our goal is to help children/teens have the tools that can develop to better cope with all types of challenges. The counseling sessions objectives are to help children/teens learn to replace ineffective behaviors and thoughts with more effective ones so that they can manage life's stressors and difficult emotions. Vividbound's training sessions are being offered for free to our clients that have children and the community which is geared specifically towards teens/adolescents, parents, guardians, teachers, child care providers, adolescent sport coaches, youth leaders, caregivers, community leaders, etc.
We will be starting DBT skills training support group sessions soon, to find out more contact us!
If interested in receiving one on one DBT training services, please feel to contact us!
(All statistics above with regards to domestic violences were cited from the U.S. Department of Justice, Violence by Inmates; The Prevalence and Consequences of Child Victimization; Physical Violence in American Families; and Problems Associated with Children's Witnessing of Domestic Violence)
"Sexual violence is any type of unwanted sexual contact. This includes words and actions of a sexual nature against a person's will and without their consent", according to the National Sexual Violence Resource Center.
Our organization is dedicated to providing hope and support to those who need it the most. We believe that everyone deserves a chance to live a fulfilling life, and that through our efforts, we can make a real difference in the world. Join us in our mission to change lives and make a lasting impact on the world by sending in pictures in denim in support of those who experienced sexual abuse.
Denim Day is a day honored internationally during the month of April. The campaign for Denim Day was initiated in the 1990's which was in response to a ruling by the Italian Supreme Court where a rape conviction was overturned because the authorities felt that since the 18-year-old female victim was wearing tight jeans, she must have helped the 45-year-old male rapist remove them, thereby implying consent. The following day, the women in the Italian parliament came to work wearing jeans in solidarity with the victim. Since then, wearing jeans on Denim Day has become a symbol of protest against erroneous and destructive attitudes about sexual assault.
Vividbound believes and supports survivors of abuse!
Did you know that sexual assault occurs every 1 to 2 minutes in the United States, according to the World Population Review (2024).
About half (51.1%) of female victims of rape reported being raped by an intimate partner and 40.8% by an acquaintance, Nati
Denim Day is honored on April 24, 2024 in support of survivors of sexual abuse.
Thank you to all who participated in each uploaded Denim Day recordings. Your support has made a huge impact on Vividbound's clients, team, and the community.
Did you know that 70 to 80% of college sexual assaults involve alcohol. Also, 20 to 25% of women experience sexual assault in college while less than 6% of men reported experience sexual assault in college.
Men/males also experience sexual abuse too. Did you know that 58.7% of black males reported sexual contact before the age of 12 with someone 5 or more years older, according to the Journal of Child Sexual Abuse (2017) author Levine, E.C. and more. Also, did you know black males and other marginalized groups are more likely to report experiencing sexual harassment than other men.
Did you know that compared to Caucasian women, African American women are less likely to involve the police in cases of child sexual abuse, according to Barlow, J. N.
According to National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV), 57% of college students who report experiencing dating violence and abuse said it occurred in college.
Vividbound had the pleasure to partner with
UNC Health in presenting to the Kappa Omicron Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Inc.
The Kappa Omicron Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta is the first black Greek sorority at UNC Chapel. It was an honor to have been able to present to such an amazing group. The presentation involved a discussion about domestic violence, identifying when someone is being abused, how to help someone/friend who is experiencing intimate partner violence, self-care, and more. We also provided the opportunity to do group activities that were engaging and enlightening.
Thank you, UNC Health (Melinda Manning) and the Kappa Omicron Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Inc. (UNC Deltas) for the partnership and invitation to do a presentation.
Another Mission Accomplished✨️
01/11
March 16, 2024, from 11a.m. to 12p.m.
Vividbound in Partnership with Mindology
Transforming DV/SA Survivors to Thriving:
Still Thriving!
**Share Your Story: Women's History Month Survivor Stories**
As we commemorate Women's History Month in March, we invite survivors of abuse to join us in celebrating the resilience, strength, and courage of women who have overcome adversity. Your transition from surviving to thriving is a powerful testament to the triumph of the human spirit, and Vividbound believes it deserves to be heard and honored.
**What We're Looking For**
We're seeking survivors of abuse who are willing to share their experiences, insights, and reflections during Women's History Month. Whether you've overcome domestic violence, sexual assault, emotional abuse, or any other form of mistreatment, your testimony has the power to inspire and empower others who may be on a similar journey from surviving to thriving.
**How You Can Participate**
If you're interested in sharing your experience, Vividbound invites you to sign up using the contact us section within this website. You'll have the opportunity to share as much or as little as you feel comfortable with, and your privacy and confidentiality will be respected at all times. Whether you choose to write a blog post, record a video, or participate in a live panel discussion, your voice matters, and we're here to support you every step of the way.
**Why Share Your Story**
**Inspire Others** You sharing your experience has the power to inspire and uplift others who may be facing similar challenges, letting them know they're not alone and that transitioning from surviving to thriving is possible.
**Raise Awareness** By sharing your experiences, you help raise awareness about the prevalence of abuse and the importance of supporting survivors in their journey towards empowerment and thriving.
**Break the Silence** Speaking out about your experience helps break the silence and stigma surrounding abuse, creating a culture of empathy, understanding, and support.
**Honor Your Strength** Sharing your experience is an act of courage and strength, and it's a way to honor your resilience and perseverance in the face of adversity.
**Sign Up Today**
If you're ready to share your experience and make a positive impact during Women's History Month, please contact Vividbound by clicking on the contact us button or chat box within this website. Together, we can celebrate the strength and resilience of survivors and honor the contributions of women throughout history.
Thank you for considering this opportunity to share your voice and make a difference. We look forward to hearing from you!
Domestic violence (DV) and/or sexual assault (SA) crosses into all class, economics, race, and more. This means even the wealthy, medical professionals, celebrities, etc. can and have experienced DV/SA. Did you know that Halle Berry experienced DV. Sadly, Halle grew up watching her mother endure abuse at the hands of her father.
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Domestic violence (DV) and/or sexual assault (SA) crosses into all class, economics, race, and more. This means even the wealthy, medical professionals, celebrities, etc. can and have experienced DV/SA. Did you know that Halle Berry experienced DV. Sadly, Halle grew up watching her mother endure abuse at the hands of her father.
It is reported that 8.8 million children in the United States (U.S.) witness domestic violence in the home each year. According to author Blake Griffin Edwards, LMFT of Psychology Today, “Compared with other kids, those who have witnessed DV experience far greater incidence of insomnia, bed wetting, verbal, motor, and cognitive issues, learning difficulties, self-harm, aggressive and antisocial behaviors, depression, and anxiety, as well as, most troubling, adult domestic violence, with boys often becoming offenders, victims, or both, and girls more likely to become victims (Brown and Bzostek, 2003).
A growing body of literature has revealed that children who have been exposed to DV are more likely than their peers to experience a wide range of difficulties, from anger and oppositional behavior, to fear, low self-worth and withdrawal, to poor sibling, peer, and social relationships. Studies have found evidence of much higher rates of pro-violence attitudes, rigid stereotypical gender beliefs involving male privilege, animal abuse, bullying, assault, property destruction, and substance abuse.
A study by Kilpatrick, Litt, and Williams (1997) concluded that witnessing DV is an experience in and of itself sufficiently intense to precipitate posttraumatic stress in children. The Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) study led by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention has classified exposure to DV as one of several adverse childhood experiences contributing to poor quality of life, premature death, and risk factors for many of the most common causes of death in the United States.”
Additionally, Halle experienced being physically abused as an adult by a former boyfriend; she was hit so hard her eardrum was punctured which resulted her being hearing impaired. Fortunately, she was able to successfully evade her abusive relationship. As a result of Halle’s horrific experiences with regards to DV allowed her to help survivors of DV. She supports the Jenesse Center. The Jenesse Center is a Los Angeles, California based domestic violence intervention program that provides shelter, support, and other services to women in abusive relationships and to their children. The Jenesse Center operates similar to Vividbound. Per Halle, “I have an understanding, a knowing. I feel like I have something that I can impart to these women. It seems like I’ve overcome it, but I really haven’t. In the quiet of my mind, I still struggle. So, while I’m helping these women, I’m helping myself through it, too. And that’s largely why I’m here.”
Halle Berry went from being a DV survivor to thriving. Vividbound recognizes and honors Halle Berry for being a voice for the voiceless victims of DV. She is also being acknowledged by Vividbound during Women’s History Month for being a notable activist for survivors and victims of DV by using her celebrity status for the good through supporting Jenesse Center.
In 2009, musical artist Chris Brown tried to push his then-girlfriend, Barbadian musical artist Rihanna, out of his car. He banged her head against a passenger window and punched her repeatedly. Additionally, it was reported that he threatened to beat her again. However, Rihanna proceeded to report what happened to her which resulted in C
In 2009, musical artist Chris Brown tried to push his then-girlfriend, Barbadian musical artist Rihanna, out of his car. He banged her head against a passenger window and punched her repeatedly. Additionally, it was reported that he threatened to beat her again. However, Rihanna proceeded to report what happened to her which resulted in Chris Brown being arrested and charged with two felonies. Chris Brown was sentenced to five years’ probation and 180 days of community labor. In addition, he was ordered via restraining order to stay away from Rihanna.
Leaving a toxic relationship is extremely difficult. On average, it takes a survivor of domestic violence (DV) at least seven times to leave an abusive relationship for good.
Like many others who have endured DV, Rihanna later had the restraining order against Chris Brown lifted, and the two briefly reconciled.
In 2015, Rihanna stated during an interview with Vanity Fair, “I was that girl who felt that as much pain as this relationship is maybe I’m one of those people built to handle s*** like this. Maybe I’m the person who’s almost the guardian angel to this person, to be there when they’re not strong enough … when they just need someone to encourage them in a positive way and say the right thing.” Rihanna continued by sharing with Vanity Fair, that she realized she couldn’t change Chris Brown. She knew she deserved better. As a result, her relationship with Chris Brown ended for good in 2013.
Rihanna stated to Vanity Fair, “I’m always concerned about whether people have good or bad intentions.” Rihanna shared and expressed similar feelings to Halle Berry during her transition from surviving to thriving.
Essentially, Rihanna went from being a DV survivor to thriving. Vividbound recognizes and honors Rihanna for being courageous for sharing her DV experience fearlessly with the world. She is also being acknowledged by Vividbound during Women’s History Month for being a notable activist for survivors and victims of DV by using her celebrity status for the good. Rihanna donated over 2.1 million dollars to aid DV victims and their children amid the global pandemic (COVID-19) which was used to provide 10 weeks of support by way of shelter, meals, counseling services, etc.
Our organization is committed to assist with reforming family court. Vividbound's mission aligns with the National Parents Organization (NPO). The NPO supports volunteer advocates in states across the country to reform outdated child custody laws that are not in the best interest of children. The NPO develops state chapters to educate legislators about the value of legislative changes to promote shared parenting while educating judges along with other divorce professionals about the importance of court rules and practices in promoting children's well-being.
Sadly, a 3-year-old boy named Jesse Ray Adams was shot and killed by his father on July 13, 2012, while at his home. At this time, Jesse's parents were married yet estranged.
Jesse's mother had a restraining order on file against Jesse's father. However, Jesse's father was granted joint custody of Jesse. On July 13, 2012, Jesse's father called Jesse's mother several times. The last call made for that day entailed the father pulling the trigger on Jesse as Jesse was speaking to his mother. The father then turned the gun on himself.
As a result of Jesse's unfortunate demise, Jesse’s mother, Christy Melvin,
launched the Jesse Ray Adams Foundation to help campaign a proposal for Jesse’s Law in North Carolina (NC). "I hope to change laws pertaining to domestic violence in family court systems,” said Christy. Moreover, Christy also expressed, “We need to protect the kids in all of these divorce proceedings. The kids are basically fought (over) and it shouldn’t be that way. They should be in the best environment.”
Jesse’s Law NC would require judges, prosecutors and other authorities to receive grant-funded domestic violence training, particularly as it pertains to children and what happens when a child ends up in the custody of an abusive parent or guardian.
Vividbound's partnerships with the Jesse Ray Adams Foundation requires a village. The communities' organizations that advocate in support of survivors of domestic violence and those who have passed away due to domestic violence are working together to ensure that Jesse's Law NC would be authorized and fully implemented.
October 22, 2023, from 1:30p.m. to 2:30p.m. Vividbound and the Jesse Ray Adams Foundation team will be gathering at the NC State Capital Building in honor of those who have passed away due to domestic violence. Our mission is to bring awareness to the public with regards to the needed support to have legislative changes that entail educating authorities while protecting those who have endured domestic violence.
Did you know?
According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV), 1 in 15 children are exposed to domestic violence each year, and 90% of these children are eyewitnesses to this violence. Author Helen Rubenstein wrote an article titled, Domestic Violence and Child Custody: The Dangers of a Presumption of Joint Physical Custody. According to Helen Rubenstein, "When child custody disputes collide with a history of domestic violence, children are likely to get hurt. Aside from court proceedings that involve child abuse or neglect, there are five main points where issues of child custody intersect with domestic violence, including (1) when victims seek protective orders; (2) during divorce proceedings; (3) when parenting time is being decided; (4) when child protective services become involved with the family; and (5) when a parent removes a child from one country to another because of domestic violence. There are different considerations at each of these points, but the common goal in each situation should be the best interests of the child and the safety of the non-violent parent.
When couples divorce, abusive parents often use custody proceedings as a way to continue a campaign of control and coercion against the former spouse. Studies show that 25 to 50 percent of disputed custody cases involve domestic violence and that batterers are more likely to seek sole custody than non-abusive fathers and they are just as likely as non-abusive fathers to receive custody. Most U.S. states require a court to consider domestic violence in making custody awards and the laws of 22 states, plus the District of Columbia, have presumptions against joint custody in cases where domestic violence has occurred. Still, courts often fail to identify and consider violence in custody decisions, even when there is a history of substantial domestic abuse. Not only are children harmed by witnessing domestic violence, but men (or the violent partner) who assault their partners parent differently even when they do not abuse their children. They are less involved with their children than other fathers, and they use negative parenting methods such as spanking, anger and shaming. They tend to undermine the other parent’s authority and are generally poor role models for developing healthy relationships and conflict resolution. "
*** Please be advised the details provided within the article noted above is not mentioned to negate or indicate that Vividbound views all domestic violence incidents when involving the biological parents as the father (male partner) being the violent parent or abuser. Additionally, Vividbound is aware that custody disputes regarding biological parents involved in domestic violence, that some fathers (males) are also subjected to domestic violence and are referenced as being the survivor of domestic violence while the mother (female) is found to be the violent partner.
Essentially, the main focus for presenting the article mentioned above is to hone in on ensuring that children involved in domestic violence custody disputes should be protected while safeguarding the parent that endured domestic violence.***
Join us in our mission to ensure authorities are knowledgeable about the needs of protecting children involved in custody cases that entail domestic violence occurrences while prioritizing the domestic violence survivor's safety and wellbeing as well.
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